Welcome I Am The Walrus

I've been pretty good and fairly suckish. Gotten myself into more music since I've last posted, which is good. On the flipside, I'm interested in a specific lady at school who isn't interested in me, so that is suckish.

yeah that happens a lot with women..

Update on that! Last Friday we had a nice conversation, so maybe there is some mutal interest, eh eh? Aside from being nice on the eyes, she's a lot nicer than what I previously thought her to be.

that is good news..sometimes it takes time

Given the time it's all gone down, it'll be a week tomorow since it's all started.

not really a lot of time...sometimes it could take a lot of time...depends on the person

I would say run to the hills and hide but thats just my cynicalism speaking heh

I'd run for the hills, but she'd prbably trip me and I'd be back at square one.

you never can tell you might get a good friend...give it some time..

I know, and I'm nervous about it because I know what needs to be done, not going to rush it...even though I kind of told her already, in a way.

you should spend some time with her and listen to her and get to know her..it might be something good

Yeah, that's why I hate spring break this year.

really I though most young people love spring break

It's hard to spend time with someone if you can't see them for a week.

how come you can't see her for a week

We're both on spring break this week.

they want last long

It still feels like it's Monday, so It's been a slow week.

did she leave town for spring break

She might have, I'm not sure. She's only been online once this week, and that was Monday. She also has work, so she might just be busy.

maybe you need to get her phone number..

Maybe ;]! I'll have to ask if she has one on Monday!

any new news on the girl

I'm not sure...I think, she might be interested, but I'm having trouble with knowing how she is, if she is.

just ask her out for lunch and see how it works out

I'm not quite old enough to take someone out to lunch yet, so meh.

I always just went up and asked them if there was a chance for a hook up , some said yes , some said no , some said maybe .....It kept me from worrying whether i had a chance or not .

well I guess you can just wait and see what happen..time will tell

But that is overly easy. I wrote her a letter today, once I find out where said locker of hers is, I'll drop it inside once I get the chance.

Why can't you take her out at 16..Can't you get your parents to drive you and her to the movies or soemthing...I dated my husband at 16...We are still married..Will be 30 years...

It's the mentallity of me, and the current youth. Most of us have the can't do attitude. I'd love to ask her out to go to a movie, but the problem with that is that it has been three, going on four weeks since we started talking. IF, it is mutual, then in a couple of weeks I'd ask her out to go to a movie since I saved up my share of the tax money (I have enough for about four tickets). But, that is a very good idea still I just really want to make sure we're good friends before I make a move...even though there are several things I have done to tell her, but she just hasn't looked into them yet. My little letter that I typed up today will be the most obvious to her! All she really has to do is pay close attention to what I mentioned.

It might be that shes waiting for you to ask her dude, Just go up to her and ask her to lunch or dinner somewhere where you can sit and chill and talk. My pastor always told me that movies was a bad first date and I agree. Worst she is gonna say is No. When I first met my ex wife I was always asking her to go to lunch and what not, not expecting anything just wanted her company of course she kept saying No but it didn't stop me. In fact I asked this one woman out with the info that my friend asked her if i were to ask her out if shed go to dinner or coffee or whatever and she told my friend Yes (they were co workers) So I nerved it up and asked her and she freaking said NO When it comes to the ladies my friend I have very very very bad luck even now when Im divorced but thats another convo altogether, Im looking, but not feeling any spark with anybody Anyways..... Ask for coffee or lunch or dinner

Oh and go Dutch!

That's a bit blunt, but do able. I've seen a lot of good idea from people, it's all a matter of timing now.

lots of young people just go to a Mall and hang out...walk around

I told her.

Trust me Walrus when i was younger i wish i was blunt might have had less lonely nights

Well, we'll be seeing as to how blunt I really am. She now knows.

Let us know how it works out for you..

If a guy wanted me to pay on our first date it would be our last..Different if we went out alot than maybe but not ont he first date..You want to impress her not turn her off...Maybe this is a guys way of thinking but trust me on this one...

Well, I'll be sure to take that advice since I'm probably going to ask her out to see a movie.

Eliene are you talking bout you paying your own way would be the end of the date? Dont you think that by going dutch that there would be no feeling or obligation to owe that person something by having a guy pay for you? or are you talking about you paying for the entire date would be your last? In that I wouldnt blame ya

I have enough money to pay for it all...assuming that it wouldn't cost 120 dollars.

it is a different world..a young lady I use to work with just married a guy and he has no job...so he sure isn't
paying for anything..

Fuck...I must have lost my 100! I have a little over 50$. I'd buy happy with paying, as long I'd pay for something, I wouldn't feel guilty about it.

I have great news! WALRUS HAS A DATE! >:]

cool enjoy it..

I shall, I shall! Thanks.

when is the date?

We haven't decided on when it'll be yet. She works, so idk.

Cool keep us updated on this..Good luck and just be yourself..